Do you want to know why you can't get motivated? Read this.
So you wanna live a life you’re obsessed with, a life you bounce out of bed in the morning for, and to do that, you know you might need to change or tweak ‘a few bits’ first.
But the motivation to do those ‘few bits’, the motivation to do what you need to do to live that life, is nowhere to be found. Feck, maybe even the motivation to do anything for any reason is nowhere to be found too!
Now wouldn’t it be THE most amazing thing if you didn’t have to go on the hunt for motivation anymore? Wouldn’t it be incredible if motivation just became in you, without you ever having to try to access it?
Well this might be a teeeeeny bit controversial, but feck it, I’m writing it anyway! :)
👉 You can’t LEARN how to get motivated.
Motivation as a ‘thing’, just doesn’t exist. You can’t make it happen. Y’see I have a theory (however ‘out there’ it might be), that you can’t learn how to ‘get’ motivated, and you can’t learn how to ‘stay’ motivated either. Plainly and simply because, it’s coming from a place of feeling forced or lulled into something. It’s a losing strategy before you’ve even started. I mean, when have you ever felt motivated to do something you don’t wanna do or feel obliged to do? It’s virtually impossible.
The very glory behind being motivated is down to feeling willing to do something, right? That’s what feeling motivated feels like; being in motion, not overthinking it, feeling thankful, moving forward, feeling excited for what’s ahead and just enjoying the moment you’re in. Think about it – when you’re enjoying doing something, you don’t need motivation to do it, do you? So approaching it from a tact that you’re trying to make yourself feel like it, is all kinds of backwards!
So how DO you approach it Kezzawonga?
You need to dissect, explore, investigate, experiment and pretty much become obsessed with – finding out what you enjoy doing! Yep, it’s that kinda simple! But I hear ye, just because something’s simple, doesn’t mean that it’s easy. But that’s genuinely the place to start from because;
So *this* is the bit we actually need to focus on.
Finding out what it really is that you want, finding out what it really is that you love, finding out what it really is that you’re good at, and then doing that 👉 The focus needs to be on finding your thing, and then living it!
Because, and I’ll say it again – when you love what you do, when you’re in alignment with your passion(s), when you’re using your natural, born strengths, and when you’re living in sheer gratitude – you don’t neeeeed motivating. I genuinely believe that’s how you don’t have to go on the hunt for motivation anymore. I genuinely believe that’s how motivation just becomes in you, without you ever having to try to access it.
Now if you’d love to get a hella lot closer to finding [and living] your thing, if you want to finally stop waiting for motivation to come get you and finally start living the career and life you want – then you defo need to come along to one of my free, live online classes 👏 (Like, DEFO). 😁 Because that’s exactly what my training’s gonna be about! I’m doing a few classes over the next couple of weeks, so come see the class times here, choose a class that works for you and save yourself a seat! I’ll keep it warm for ye in the meantime 😉
I can’t wait to see you there, we’ll have some craic 😊 until next weekend pookachu! 💋