Breaking news: I know who has the answers to your problems honey!
I’m not usually one for sweeping statements, because they’re…well…sweeping! (And therefore usually wildly inaccurate).
However, I’m making an exception this week, simply because I’m confident that this particular sweepage is on 👏 the 👏 freaking 👏 money! 👏
I know who has the answers to your problems!
But before I dive into the meat and veg of said sweepage, I want you to firstly have a think about what you’re determining as the ‘problem’. What do you see as the biggest thing between you and the life you wanna be living?
Problem #1: I’ve never believed in myself.
Do you see your lack of confidence as the problem? Does the fact that you struggle to believe in yourself feel like it’s the biggest things in your way? Does the idea that you have the potential to be whoever you want to be and create whatever you want to create just feel completely alien and unrelatable to you? Almost like, you’ve never managed to see things through before and therefore you can’t trust yourself to see things through in the future?
Problem #2: I’ve never been able to hold on to (or have enough) money.
Do you see your lack of money as the problem? Does the fact that your bank account goes right down to the wire (or into the red) each month feel like it’s the biggest things in your way? Does the idea that you could actually change your money mindset and attract more money so you could have more money for yourself just feel like some nonsensical fantasy? Almost like, your only ‘way out’ or solution is to win the lottery?
Problem #3: I don’t know what I wanna do with my life.
Do you see your career-stuck-ness as the problem? Does the fact that your professional life hasn’t evolved anywhere in the last I-don’t-know-how-long feel like it’s the biggest thing in your way? Does the idea that you could actually enjoy your work, look forward to Mondays and not actually want to take time off sound so unreachable and unrealistic to you? Almost like, you’re so forever destined to just work to live, you can’t wait to get your working life ‘over with’ so you can retire?
Problem #4: I’ve never got enough time.
Do you see your lack of time as the problem? Does the fact that your weeks roll into months roll into years feel like it’s the biggest thing in your way? Does the idea that you could choose to spend your time differently and have more time for yourself and your dreams sound so laughable and unachievable, you think I’m living in fantasy-land for suggesting it? Almost like, you’ve that much on your plate, your life is so jam packed with to-dos and responsibilities, and there’s so many people that rely on you throughout each day, the only time you get an excuse to pause and prioritise yourself is when you’re so sick your body physically stops you?
Problem #5: I’m so terrified of failing or not doing things right.
Do you see your fear of failure and overbearing perfectionism as the problem? Does the fact that you’re paralysed by every step you take needing to be 100% right feel like it’s the biggest thing in your way? Does the idea that you could actually move forward imperfectly while still feeling terrified of failing sound like the most ridiculous suggestion you’ve heard all year? Almost like, you’re destined to stay caught in a loop of inaction and feeling stuck because you’re never going to feel equipped to know you’re going to make the right decisions?
Now there’s one common thread that runs through alllllll of these. And if you didn’t see your biggest problem in this list here, I’m pretty sure I know the common thread through that one too. So have you sussed it by now? Do you know who has the answers to all of these?
👉 IT’S YOU! 👈
You have the answer to every single one of these problems lovely, inside of you. Not outside of you – INSIDE. And I appreciate that might sound as a frustrating as hell 😄 because if the answer’s been inside you all along, then why the hell haven’t you solved the problem yet!? Well I’ll tell you.
It’s simply because you’ve never been shown how to access the answer(s) before now. Yes! It really is as simple as that! No personal trainer can do sit-ups for you so you can have the abs, you have to do the work. Either through figuring it out by yourself slowly, or with a personal trainer showing you how and getting you there quickly. And it’s the same when it comes to your mindset, no-one else can do the work for you if you want to move past these things that are holding you back. You can either figure it out by yourself slowly, or I can show you how and get you there more quickly.
If you’re serious about wanting to dig out the answers to these problems and start living the life you truly want, get yourself on The Imperfect Life® Designer waitlist here and you’ll be the first to hear when doors open again 😉 (and shhhh, if you do get on the waitlist, there may just be a lil treat waiting for you when enrolment opens again).
Until next weekend pookachu 💋